while researching, what i would write about for women, i discovered a list of what girls really want. I was surprised to see that massage came in at 11 but it also came in at 12 when included in a visit to a day spa. Number one was getting dressed up, (not sure i get that) number 2 was a self given, (really) mani and pedi, number 3 was doing your hair (yourself) what kind of list is this? The top ten then went onto include a (home) day spa??, watching chick flicks, shopping, signing up for dance classes or gym, spray tans and making a playlist on your ipod.
I must admit, if this is the truth, I know nothing about what women want... and that's saying something considering that i am one. :-)
What happened to being happy and nurtured and being loved and understood, finding our purpose, living our dreams, having a life we love.... Well to be perfectly honest, i say "while researching," but i just googled it once, and found this list and just had to share. Of course we want all those things i mentioned. This was more obviously a list of things for girls to do, not what they really want.
because we all know what they want, they are just like most other humans, we want a massage, but not just a massage to help with a sore back, we want a massage to nurture and honour and touch us, not only physically, but emotionally and spiritually as well.
So in saying that, why don't we go out and get it for ourselves?
We make excuses for spending money and use "necessity" as a reason for it. "We had to go shopping we needed a new pair of shoes for that function or a new dress or......
When we pay for a hair cut, its visible, people can see it, so there is reason. When we buy clothes or accessories, we wear it, so people notice and we have something to show for the $$$ we spent.Even a madi or pedi, we can see the effects on our hands and feet, even if its just a nail colour, its visible to us and to others.
But the exquisiteness of having our bodies nurtured by the hands of a professional, someone who can soothe our bodies, our minds and ultimately, our souls with loving nurturing strokes, soft music, beautiful oils, and the hour or two that has us completely surrender to the moment, relax and replenish ourselves, well that isn't something we are prepared to do?
Please.... tell me.... what you want and why...
if feeling fabulous and being blissed out like a buddhist monk, in a way that will touch move and inspire you, has anything to do with what you may want... let me know, leave a message, go to my website, sign up for the newsletter, like hand heart soul healing and massage on facebook.
I promise you will be glad you did
love and blessings and joy and bliss
xxx
I must admit, if this is the truth, I know nothing about what women want... and that's saying something considering that i am one. :-)
because we all know what they want, they are just like most other humans, we want a massage, but not just a massage to help with a sore back, we want a massage to nurture and honour and touch us, not only physically, but emotionally and spiritually as well.
So in saying that, why don't we go out and get it for ourselves?
We make excuses for spending money and use "necessity" as a reason for it. "We had to go shopping we needed a new pair of shoes for that function or a new dress or......
When we pay for a hair cut, its visible, people can see it, so there is reason. When we buy clothes or accessories, we wear it, so people notice and we have something to show for the $$$ we spent.Even a madi or pedi, we can see the effects on our hands and feet, even if its just a nail colour, its visible to us and to others.
But the exquisiteness of having our bodies nurtured by the hands of a professional, someone who can soothe our bodies, our minds and ultimately, our souls with loving nurturing strokes, soft music, beautiful oils, and the hour or two that has us completely surrender to the moment, relax and replenish ourselves, well that isn't something we are prepared to do?
Please.... tell me.... what you want and why...
if feeling fabulous and being blissed out like a buddhist monk, in a way that will touch move and inspire you, has anything to do with what you may want... let me know, leave a message, go to my website, sign up for the newsletter, like hand heart soul healing and massage on facebook.
I promise you will be glad you did
love and blessings and joy and bliss
xxx
Thank you so much for my beautiful massage yesterday, im really looking forward to next week.. I totally feel like I love myself more everytime I have one, that its not just a luxury, but a must have, it makes me feel like I cherish myself and value my well being more & more. Thank you for the experience, your amazing!
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