A Tantra Massage

Today I was asked to describe a way to explain a Tantric Massage to clients of a new centre I will be practising from. They are doing an editorial piece on myself and Tantric Massage for their monthly newsletter. A Naturopath, listening in at reception, asked if she could add something to the conversation, I said "Of Course" she asked "Can I be completely honest" again, I said "Of Course" She said she thought it was inappropriate and suggested I just call it something else so nobody would be offended and it didnt draw the "wrong type" to the centre. I just chuckled to myself. This is just the attitude I want to disappear.

To disappear something, first we have to acknowledge that it is present... Ok done that.


So how do we alter the thinking of western society.? Because it exists even in a Natural Therapies Centres.
Seems like a huge ask, maybe, but one I am up for... Bring it on I say.


So to the person and people who suggest to change the name, I say this.....


What we resist, persists. I have said that I am up for altering the perception of western society about Tantra, so if I change the name, I honour exactly what I am committed to altering. Intuitively I choose not to resist, just to explain as best I can what I do. I also explained to her that if there is a belief , which is an energy, in the centre, then we will have clients and calls from people thinking we are offering something we arent. Thats the way it works, if somebody or something is holding that space, then that is what will show up, and I dont want that for me or the centre. I have never had anything inapropriate happen, since I have been practicing, and I say thats because I am really clear about what I offer and what is available and what isnt.




A Tantra Massage initially consists of a full body massage, introducing the client to the 7 energy centres, known as chakras, in our body. I explain a little history about Tantra from Ancient times. As I am massageing and awakening each chakra, I ask certain questions or make certain statements relating to the emotional and physical aspects of each chakra. This is a wonderful oportunity to heal old emotional wounds, sometimes it can be thought provoking. Sometimes quite emotional. To release something we have been holding onto all our lives that we werent actually present to, then watch old beliefs and hurt fade away, can be a very powerful moment. I move up the spinal column activating and releasing blockages in the chakras with firm flowing strokes, nurturing and holding a space of love and safety for the client. I will explain the colour shape and relationship we have to the chakras and in longer or later sessions we can discuss breathing exercises and movements related to each Chakra.


The experience of a Tantric Massage can be emotive, sensual, blissful and therapeutic. It can be many things to many people. It is not a sexual massage at all, however we are dealing with the sexual energy in the body and this is not something to hide away or feel awkward about. It is the most powerful energy in our bodies and Tantra can teach us to harness it and use it to our best ability and to experience bliss and pleasure every moment of every day all the time.
Now what could possibly be inappropriate about that?




So if you are now eager to experience Tantra or a Tantra Massage, go for it. Do some homework, ask all the questions you can think of and make sure the practitioner you are seeing is aligned with your values.


There are bad apples in the cart, just make sure you see the signs before you take a bite, and dont worry if you find a worm, you will know, if your thoughts are positive and pure, you will find the best practitioner for you.




The Goddess in me honours the Goddess in you
Namaste
xxx