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Thursday, August 9, 2012

Men men men men many men

Hand Heart Soul Healing and Massage is not only my business, its a huge part of my life and who i am. I absolutely love what i do and who i do it on, and with :)
I really wish i could think of a better word than client, as it implies something that just doesnt sit well with me for some reason, but i cant think of another word or phrase that fits any better.
Most of you who come to see me, are my regulars, I figure you come for a relaxing therapeutic massage to heal your bodies of the stresses and strains of every day life.

Whether it be a job that is draining you emotionally and/or physically or their retirement thats causing those hips or shoulders to fail or your backs to hurt because of all the whipper snippering and manual labour involved with keeping the acerages maintained. Either way, you are sore and in need of some form of touch.
Aren't we all?
Its a basic human thing!
Most of these wonderful people i see, are men, big ones, little ones, old ones, young ones, big boofy builders, tightly wound athletes, or frail old fellas, they may not be aware, or even interested as to why they keep coming back, or why the massage i offer is better or different from most others. Obviously its because it feels good, but why?
These thoughts have crossed my mind as well, so as i look at expanding the practise and bringing in someone to assist me, one or two days per week, i ponder where and who to advertise or direct my marketting towards.
I dont really think of Marketting from a "sales" perspective as much as a "making a difference" perspective. If it is mainly you wonderful men that i am making a difference to, then i want to expand my reach to include more of you.
When i first started in business for myself, i actually, strangely enough, had an idea to work with just women. It was almost as soon as i had the thought, men began to arrive by the truck.load, and sometimes literally :)
I was concerned at first that i was attracting people who were expecting a little more than i was willing to offer. But over these last few years of treating and getting to know all you wonderful masculine males, i realised its about the love, the touch, the honouring and nurturing of the entire mind body and soul.
Us women tend to get that from our girlfriends, we meet for coffee and a chat but we get so much more, we are hugged and held if we need it and listened to and nurtured emotionally and physically if thats what we need.
You big boofy blokes dont seem to get that nurturing, which i guess is one of the reasons why sex is so important to you. Oh and by the way, its very important to us as well, but thats another story for another time :-)
But im sure its why, what we have is so important to you. I know I dont offer you the sex, but i do offer you my ears, a shoulder, my hands, my heart and my soul, to nurture, honour and touch you.

Some of you have met Jade, she has been doing the doubles with me in the Lomi Lomi and also Kat, who is doing the doubles in the Tantralise with me. I want to expand so i will be more available to see the some of you who have been too busy to book and rely on me to be here when our timetables align, which we havent been too successful at so far.

I want you all to know that you are very special to me.
I am extremely grateful for your support since meeting most of you in the little centre on Kenthurst Rd.
I want to continue to support you with nurturing honouring and touch so i would love for you to let me know if there is anything i can do to suport your growth on this journey.

Would you be interested in doing mens groups?

If so would you prefer for it to be facilitated by a male?

Would you be interested in couples sessions or groups? As a way of connecting with others and each other?

Some of you may not be aware of the sessions i offer to enhance your love and relationships.
Send me an email or ask any questions.
Hope to hear from you all soon

xxx

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